My upmost sympathy for your tragic loss. I hope no malice from my comments above will not cause extra pain. I do feel the problem with saturation media had the negative effect in swamping unnecessarily. Where symptoms like your child being unusual, should be red flags to Doctors. My father who is no longer here. Was a fairly fit old buzzard. But due to Meningitis hit. Without thought, I Phone for an ambulance seeing him in shock. Later he was confirm with Septicaemia Meningitis and was lucky to survive. With the media and past government tactics creating a swamping effect. Genuine cases were possible caught up in a long queue to see too few doctors. And timing is the element.
I wish you well and your child looking down on your family.