THE family of murdered detective Stephen Oake say he gave his life for his fellow officers - and not for any gallantry medal.
As the government faced mounting anger over its decision not to award the brave detective constable a posthumous George Cross, or indeed any other gallantry medal, his family responded to the snub with calm dignity. His father Robin said: "He would not have wanted any recognition, he was doing it for his colleagues."
He added: "Certainly his bravery needed some recognition and he got that of course at the Old Bailey trial.
"At the end of the day, as a Christian man, Steve's reward is in heaven."
The 40-year-old officer was stabbed to death as he tackled al Qaida terrorist Kamel Bourgass during a police raid on a Crumpsall flat in January 2003.
Attack
His selfless courage saved the lives of three fellow officers and helped avert a terrorist attack on Britain which could have claimed hundreds of lives.
But it emerged yesterday that the Cabinet Office had decided to turn down his nomination for a posthumous George Cross.
The M.E.N, which has been inundated with comments from readers angry at the decision, can reveal that the officer will now be honoured with a commendation from the Chief Constable of Greater Manchester Police instead.
A police spokesman said: "Det Con Stephen Oake will receive a posthumous Commendation from Greater Manchester Police's Chief Constable, Michael Todd. Other police officers involved in the same operation are also being considered for an award."
Baffled
Colleagues and friends are said to be baffled and angered by the George Cross committee's decision. One police source said: "Everyone who was at the flat the night of the tragedy will be devastated."
GMP recommended Det Con Oake be considered for the highest non-military honour. But the committee, chaired by Sir Gus O'Donnell, ruled his actions had not been "greater than the call of duty requires".
As well as being turned down for the George Cross, Det Con Oake was also denied a string of lesser medals including the George Medal "for gallantry of an extremely high order", the Queen's Gallantry Medal "for gallantry of a high order" and the Queen's Commendation for Bravery "entailing risk to life and meriting national recognition".
Critics
The snub has also attracted criticism from senior politicians. Shadow Home Secretary David Davis called the decision "bureaucratic", while Sir Nicholas Winterton, the Conservative MP for Det Con Oake's home town of Poynton, said he was "sad and disappointed".
Tony Blair will not be intervening in the row, said a Number 10 spokesman. Paul Kelly, chairman of the Greater Manchester Police Federation, said the decision was an "absolute insult" to the memory of Det Con Oake, who left a widow, Lesley, and three children.
Mrs Oake has not commented publicly on the decision but Mr Kelly said she had told him the award would have been a boost for their children.
DO you think Stephen Oake should be honoured for his bravery? Have your say.

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sam, rochdale (17/02/2006 at 09:21)
John, Manchester (17/02/2006 at 10:02)
Nick, Stockport (17/02/2006 at 10:53)
Colin W, Stockholm (17/02/2006 at 13:08)
The answer emigrate as the grass can be greener on the other side.
Forces family, Manchester (17/02/2006 at 13:18)
The world when Stephen died went on, it went on eating, sleeping and feeling safe. And knowing men and boys like the servicement who got the highest award in action, they too see it as 'part of the job'.
This is the crux of it in the words..... the committee, chaired by Sir Gus O'Donnell, ruled his actions had not been "greater than the call of duty requires".
I disagree. His actions were in preventing the greatest loss of life by the taking of his own, knowing the risks and not knowing the risks to himself. Even with body armour the blade or implement could have severed major arteries, or worse this man could have got loose in Hyde Park, the campuses on university, or a major public place and took hostages. All things a forces mother knows are in the minds of those who fear and have served in any uniformed service.
What is feared is that every uniformed person might be an embassador for valour in what is an administration that said it fervently applauded such actions of individuals.
A job is executing ones job in the hours paid, it is not when exposed to induced terrorism by affilliations with other nations, and the onset of bringing the danger to our doorstep with the milk. Stephen was the son of someones mother. He did not deserve and does not deserve to die as one only doing a job.
Derek Bowyer, middleton (17/02/2006 at 13:30)
Anon, Manchester (17/02/2006 at 14:36)
Bootneck, Manchester (17/02/2006 at 16:29)
If so..to all you knockers in your warm safe homes, put yourselves in that flat on a winters night, chaos and stabbed many times probibly thinking of his wife and children yet he kept hold of his attacker! Would you do the same?
Tony Blair was quick enough on the PR bandwagon to get to the funeral, where are his comments now?
Enough said!
PW, Manchester (17/02/2006 at 19:38)
Susie, Scotland (17/02/2006 at 23:08)
Sandra K Haynes, Livingston,Texas (18/02/2006 at 02:47)
Chris Clarke, Bue=rlington, Ontario (18/02/2006 at 05:47)
Yet the brass are more concerned with the fallout from "the Secret Policeman"
This man deserves a gong, his family deserve more than sympathy and the troops who serve with the GMP need to know that those who fall in the line of duty will be respected by the Home Office southern gits in Whitehall.
Nice message to the troops from our Bramshill leaders.
Carol Hayes, Auckland New Zealand (18/02/2006 at 09:12)
H.Potter, Chester Towers (18/02/2006 at 10:14)
Malcolm, USA (formally of salford Eng) (18/02/2006 at 22:35)
This officer most definatly deserves a medal and Blair should do something usefull for once in his life and intervene.
My heart goes out to this offeicers family.
John, Stockport (19/02/2006 at 00:13)
Gregory Happy, Manchester (20/02/2006 at 07:14)
Mrs Merilyn Haslam, Stockport (20/02/2006 at 16:43)
Mark Davison, Oldham (16/02/2007 at 14:12)
Hopefully common sense will prevail - the guy deserves the George Cross at the very least.