Former Bolton Wanderers midfielder David Norris will also face an FA investigation after making what appeared to be a 'handcuffs' sign on Saturday.
Norris is a former team mate of Luke McCormick, who was sentenced to more than seven years after ploughing his car into a vehicle in a crash which killed Partington brothers Ben and Arron Peak, aged eight and 10.
McCormick had been partying at Norris's wedding the night before the smash - which happened on the M6 in Staffordshire on June 7.
He was twice the drink-drive limit. Norris, who now plays for Ipswich Town, has written to the boys' parents and has been warned about his future conduct.
He claims the gesture, made in a match at Blackpool, has been 'wrongly interpreted'.
In a statement, a spokesman for the Suffolk club said: "The club also regrets the potential for misinterpretation of the gesture and would like to make a donation to an appropriate charity equal to the fine imposed on the player."
Amanda Peak, the boys' mother, had earlier called for action.
She said: "It's not right. He said it was something to show solidarity, but he's had a good few months to do that. He's got to have known how it would have come across. I knew what the symbol was, and if I did, everyone must.
"Something must be done to show that you can't get away with doing silly things. Hundreds of kids must look up to him."
Her comments were echoed by neighbour Phil Bennett, who was in the car at the time of the crash.
He said: "It's something that should not be done in public. I'm angry about it. It was out of order. We never ran round the streets saying 'hooray McCormick's been jailed' after the case.
"Things like that don't help the healing process. He should have more respect for people's feelings. If it was a private message, it should have been said in private behind closed doors, not in front of thousands. He's shown no respect to us."
Mrs Peak's husband, Phil, was at the wheel of the Toyota Previa people carrier when it was hit by McCormick's Range Rover shortly before 6am.
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PW, Manchester (10/11/2008 at 18:37)
Mark,Radcliffe. (10/11/2008 at 19:56)
Jason G Robinson, Mottram St Andrew (10/11/2008 at 20:54)
umpire 2, Salford M7 4HT (10/11/2008 at 22:12)
Move on please
Sam 1986, Stretford (10/11/2008 at 22:23)
Jonny Labels (10/11/2008 at 22:41)
If the most ardant fan stopped going to football matches, would the players or club contact them to ask why or how to make them come back ? No. Why not ? Because you dont matter and the sooner fans realise that the sooner players wages will come down and maybe they might feel it necesary to start playing better football.
David,North M/C (10/11/2008 at 23:41)
Chocolate, Manchester. (10/11/2008 at 23:51)
Jay B, oldham (11/11/2008 at 09:09)
his arms are crossed! its more of an x!
Grief Tourist, Trumpton (11/11/2008 at 10:43)
The Seeker, Eccles (11/11/2008 at 12:19)
stalyvegasblue (11/11/2008 at 16:05)
RED1 (11/11/2008 at 19:17)
Manchester by Day (11/11/2008 at 21:53)
The reporting of this unfortunate incident just strengthens the media's desire to control public opinion.
Gringo The Mexican Mancunian (12/11/2008 at 01:07)
Manchester by Day (12/11/2008 at 09:23)
What do you mean, "above the law"? What criminal offence has Norris made? What is illegal about his actions? Nothing.
umpire 2, Salford M7 4HT (12/11/2008 at 10:24)
Supporting a friend is what is missing in this country, we have too much bad news and reporters making bad news a lot worse than it is.
This game happen in Suffolk, it was not showed on National TV until was advertised in the National Press.
Get areal life start worrying about the credit crunch, your own jobs and your own families without interfering in other matters that we do not know the proper facts for.
Gringo The Mexican Mancunian (14/11/2008 at 13:40)
Umpire 2, I have immersed myself in the facts published on the matter and have witnessed the gesture myself so why can I not comment, am I not allowed an opinion? Support of ones freinds and colleagues is fine, but when involved in something as sensitive as this then perhaps people need to check their own over inflated ego, wage packet and self importance and do it in private. And as you ask my job is very secure, and my family is very well thank you, shame I cant say the same about the poor victims in this matter. Would any of you defend a person who publicly supported say the Moors Murderers or Harold Shipman? Mcormick may not have killed hundreds of people or snatched kids off the streets and tortured them to death, but he intentionally drove a vehicle on a public road whilest well over the limit, causing the death of 2 innocents and destroyed the lives of the victims immediate families. Perhaps if it were your kids or families involved you would think differently.