Ross Harper, 34, provoked a massive response after launching a scathing attack on the `shallow gold-diggers' who trawled the bars of his Wilmslow hometown looking for a wealthy suitor.
The M.E.N's website was crammed with comments from readers. Some took Ross' attack personally, while others took his side. One even suggested a night out in Oldham. Now our sister TV station Channel M's resident dating expert Dan Sodergren has stepped in. He believes he can help Ross find the woman of his dreams.
And the first port of call could be the frozen foods aisle.
Dan, who runs the Attraction Faction website, which `guarantees encounters you will never forget', said Ross was `his own worst enemy'. Hesaid: "Ross is limiting his options by only seeking women in bars.
"When you meet a girl there you don't see the real them. They spend three hours putting their war paint on and have had maybe ten drunken blokes making passes at them, so it's not the best environment.
"I'm trying to get him to approach women in a neutral place like Tesco. They'll be off-guard and more likely to be themselves."
Ross, a successful brand manager for the fashion house Evisu, agreed. He said: "It sounds daunting approaching someone in a supermarket. But Dan's showing me it's not about being witty and cracking one-liners. If you were lost you'd ask a pretty girl for directions so this should be no different."
Ross, who owns his own home in Wilmslow and drives a £40,000 car, claimed the women he meets are only after one thing. He said: "They ask three questions, `What do you earn, where do you live and what do you drive?'."
But Dan said: "He's just not met the right girl yet."
mike.keegan@men-news.co.uk
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I can totally agree with Ross comments. I am also looking for love and not having the greatest of luck in finding it. I am not well off, I'm a single mother but I own my own home, work, own a car and I am very very proud of the fact that everything I have I have earned and worked for on my own. The problem I have is that this determination I have actaully means nothing in the eyes of potential partners I meet. I find that most men now are only after one thing and even more so when they find out that I also impersonate/lookalike a famous iconic sex symbol from the 1950's. To me its a sideline and a way to get out socially, but to men its a fantasy come true and their first question is 'Have you ever been Marilyn in the bedroom!'
Its very frustrating especially when you know you have so much to offer another person as a partner. Ross I know where you're coming from and I really hope it works out for you, good luck with your search for love! x
good luck ross. i hope to see you on the prowl in netto, levenshulme some day soon :)